Does when someone have chemistry are they really perfect couple? Or will their relationship if perchance they enter a relationship,will work? Well,we don't know,but here's an expert advise..However,in my own opinion,it depends upon the person's people surrounding her or him..
What strident stipulations you set up!! You insist, “There has to be chemistry...” at first, yet some relationships begin lukewarm before they build. You want to govern “…the man ‘allowed’ in my space,” as a parent would regulate a child. And you conclude your guy’s circle of female friends means “…he needs a whole lot of attention to keep his self-esteem up,” appointing yourself as his shrink. Forget this man’s possible shortcomings. Girl, with all your dictates and mandates, YOU reek of control! Consequently, no man will be “everything” you’re seeking.
Is this girl’s real age a real issue for you? People embroider credentials online to impress. You swallowed the tainted bait, and you may be suffering from indigestion. But this depends on you.
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| Chemistry or True Love? |
30-second therapist: Should I give in to chemistry?
Dr.
Gilda Carle gives some quick relationship advice to two TODAY.com readers
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Need a quick answer to a relationship dilemma? Relationship expert Dr. Gilda Carle
cuts through the fluff with her relationship advice in TODAY.com’s “30-second
therapist” series.
Q: I've been single for several years. Yes, I am very
particular about the man allowed in my space. There has to be chemistry on that
initial meeting. I met a man who is not everything I am looking for, but the
chemistry is there. We have much in common. My issue is that he likes women A
LOT. Most of his relationships are with women, and I see that as an indication
he needs a whole lot of attention to keep his self-esteem up. Also, I question
whether one woman will ever satisfy him. I have no interest in having to keep
my guard up and constantly wonder whom he might be flirting with. My gut says,
"Walk away," but the chemistry says, “Stay.” He also lives in another
city! — Chemistry or Catastrophe?
Dear Chemistry,
What strident stipulations you set up!! You insist, “There has to be chemistry...” at first, yet some relationships begin lukewarm before they build. You want to govern “…the man ‘allowed’ in my space,” as a parent would regulate a child. And you conclude your guy’s circle of female friends means “…he needs a whole lot of attention to keep his self-esteem up,” appointing yourself as his shrink. Forget this man’s possible shortcomings. Girl, with all your dictates and mandates, YOU reek of control! Consequently, no man will be “everything” you’re seeking.
Ordinarily, I recommend people go
with their guts — and distance can indeed be a deterrent. However, before you
contemplate long-term romance with anyone, you’d better first switch to a more
inviting attitude! — Dr. Gilda
Q:
What do you do if the girl you are dating is 13 years older than what she told
you when you met online? — Dubious Dater
Dear Dubious,
Is this girl’s real age a real issue for you? People embroider credentials online to impress. You swallowed the tainted bait, and you may be suffering from indigestion. But this depends on you.
A female client of mine found a guy
online, and their feelings intensified on Skype. When they met in person, she
revealed her true age. Although surprised because she looked much younger, he
didn’t care. They’re married today. In contrast, a male client refused to see a
woman again who admitted on their second date she shaved 2 years from her
profile. He raged about her dishonesty. She moved on, and he’s still raging.
Dubious, your girl may be humanly
insecure and vain, or she may be a pathological liar. Your findings and
feelings will decide whether you want to cage this cougar. —Dr. Gilda
Dr. Gilda Carle is
the relationship expert to the stars. She is a professor at New York’s Mercy
College and has written 15 books; her latest is “Don’t Bet on the Prince!”
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